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A Wedding Day to Remember. A Wedding Day to Remember Ch. We also begin to see how transformative her love for him has been. I had it all worked out. We are different…a different person. Her need to keep moving forward…despite trauma and loss. Maybe it was her need to be directed…even punished. The exquisitely intense erotic lovemaking between Greyson and Caden is how healing is fought for and hard won by these two lovers…a sacred needed connection that touches and heals the psyche and personhood.
No other means would have achieved healing…no one else could have saved either Caden and Greyson…only each other. The writing is at times wonderfully close in…tense…filled with sounds and colored with a mood created brilliantly through words evoking the very atmosphere in which events occurred. The language is rhythmic and musical; at times the use of repeated words create a feeling of motion.
I never once felt lost in a complex telling of the story. All the expressed introspection of the characters felt revelatory and exciting to read. I never felt an urge to skim. I wanted and read every word on the page.
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I need to edit myself at this point. There are so many ideas this book sparked in my mind I really could go on and on. I will leave you with the most cherished idea I discovered in reading this final book. You were a promise kept. And that this love…this promise is inevitable, bigger than us and immutable through the experiences of our life no matter how life leaves its mark on our personhood. This love was there before, now and will be there always.
I guess by now, you can tell just how much I recommend this series to you. Broken Edge The Edge, 3. And…this is just what is at the surface of the read. There are underlying themes that manifest to the reader who is alert to the consummate genius on display in the composition of the words used by the incomparable C.
Reiss throughout the series. Caden is leaving for Iraq. In the unwinding, my own feelings were freed. Disappointment unraveled to reveal anxiety, which dissolved into a puddle of worry that boiled with anger that steamed into sadness before soaking into resentment. After examining all the deconstructed events and emotions of the past months, Greyson still sees that the love she shares with Caden exists outside of all the turmoil and is not connected to the turbulent circumstances or her raw emotions.
It was at the heart of every decision I was about to make. Caden needs these things to reign in this "entity", this beast and to feel some semblance of being whole. A career she abandoned for a civilian life with him. A love story that progresses through further horror and trauma. A love story that tells of a love that needs to crawl across psychological wounds like a captive forced to crawl across broken glass to be free.
A love story in which pain is a panacea, cure, pleasure and perhaps more. While Caden and Greyson traverse the scarred earth of a war-torn land, they search for their truth as individuals and as a couple brought together by either circumstance or a God that Caden can only define as the capital U in Universe so long as Greyson walks the earth. Along with the constant pressure of living in a war zone…there is something or someone insidious that is at work threatening Caden, Greyson and their marriage. To share even one theory of the meaning would be too much of a spoiler.
And of course, the story continues because not all has been answered. Actually, it seems the more information we gather through the series the less we actually know. I was intrigued with the words above…which I quoted from the book and used for my title. This author is so sly. If you read the previous books: This series is truly transcendent in its genre. The imagination of storyline is unmatched and quality of the work in total is superior. If you love your romance intense, intelligently creative in its eroticism and wrapped in a plot that has your head spinning in all the best ways…well, friends what more can I say…go Caden was under the same sky, and he was looking with me.
He was my blue sky, my clear day, the protective shell over my world. At night, we were strung together by the stars. On the Edge The Edge, 2. Ah, but this is a true masterpiece and the answers are tucked tightly in between the pages…between the words even. So, there are no easy or readily discernible answers. Then of course there is the eroticism…who can think about clues, mysteries or anything plot related when there is such a devastating Dominant man described as Caden St.
John and his endowments…and the things he does… Add to the mix Damon and his particular charm. Somehow my focus is stolen by the overwhelming eroticism. I am astonished at the intimate revelations of both Caden and Damon. I have never read anything quite like this. Happily, I will even admit to having reread it. It is perfectly fascinating. I will say it again…it is also hot AF! I appreciate how honestly Greyson is written as a character. I can somewhat identify with her. She is a psychiatrist who specializes in treating veterans with PTSD.
She is committed to him broken as much as she committed to him a whole man when she married him. While she tries to take the proper clinical steps as a psychiatrist to hasten his return to wholeness, she sometimes gives into the temptation that is her beautiful husband…his voice, his smell, his touch. Greyson also discovered her kink with Caden just before he manifested his disorder.
She has her own issues and the situation is wearing on her sanity. At this point in the series, I cannot be sure of what the author is ultimately saying. I get some ideas on how destructive jealousy can be…That war leaves it mark on all who experience it…That love wakes up a sleeping heart and will always be the motivation to protect its beloved. I am consumed with ideas and theories but as this is not a free-for-all and only a simple review, I will hold my pen. I will say if you love a mind bending, heart rending, searingly hot erotic romantic suspense then what are you waiting for?
Jump right in with the Prequel to the series, Cutting Edge. The delightful torture begins free for the asking. If you listen closely as you read, you will also hear her challenge to consider your beliefs concerning the nature of existence. Do you believe that everlasting love is the purpose for everything? We were left with the agonizing separation of Della and Ren at the end of the first book.
Despite their lack of early guidance or reasonable adult care and escaping an intolerably abusive situation, Ren and Della developed into honorable and wholly decent human beings whose love changed complexions as Della grew into womanhood. He chose to keep her, care for her, provide for her, love her, raise her and sacrifice everything for her. As decent as Ren is and perhaps because he is so decent, he was terrified of having corrupted Della with his lustful and indecent urges. He was ever cautious around her, always wanting her to feel safe and comfortable with him. Still it took some careful processing for him to feel comfortable with their new-found reality.
In this careful writing about how Ren makes peace with himself and his feelings, we soon abandon any idea that their relationship is the least bit taboo.
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Fate had decided to throw us an unconventional beginning by giving her to me the moment she was born. Every important aspect of love was examined through these two indelible characters…including the burden inherent in any perceived or actual separation from the one you love whether emotional or physical. Their couplings were the heady stuff of unleashed, near violent emotion and tender, sweet ministrations.
They often retreated to the forest, their true home of their early days and a sacred place for their wild longings and desire for isolation. This is the type of story that grabs ahold of you and will not let go…it did me. Which brings me back to my personal answer to the question asked in the beginning of this review. All is well with my soul.
Alternatively, if the limits of your belief only extend to that which can be observed or empirically known, then it may be perhaps quite a different story for you. Beyond feeling love is knowing love. Love can only be known in experience and the wholesale belief that you are loved and the love you share will exist with you and your beloved forever, eternally, beyond the veil of this world into the next ad infinitum.
As I thought long and hard…this is what Pepper Winters said to me in this duet. Living in love is a choice to believe in the immortal, the infinite and the divine. To choose to do otherwise is simply to exist. Love that spans decades, infects souls, and turns you immortal because, when you love that deeply, nothing can ever die. It transcends time, space, distance, universes.
That is what our story is about. Romance comes and goes, lust flickers and smoulders, trials appear and test, life gets in the way and educates, pain can derail happiness, joy can delete sadness, togetherness is more than just a fairy-tale A choice to love, cherish, honour, trust, and adore. A choice to be there when arguments occur, and agony arrives, and fate seems determined to rip you apart. A choice to choose love, all the while knowing it has the power to break you.
A choice, dear friend, to give someone your entire heart. No one ever said it was. Some days, you want it back, and others, you wish you had more than just one heart to give. Because of love, life is a war of moments and time and bargaining for more of everything. But in the end, love is what life is about. And love is the purpose of everything. I was completely honored to have participated with these exceptional Shhluts!!! Special thanks to SueBee!!! Very special thanks to Pepper Winters!!! Neighborhood Watch Twin Estates, 4. This reads more like a romantic suspense with a bad, bad boy who needs to come to terms with his bad boy ways before every good thing in life passes by him.
Our heroine, Tori, running from a broken heart over her infatuation with his twin brother, Liam collides with this bad boy. We meet Landon at his worst when Tori in a drunken stupor decides to seduce Liam in one last act of desperation. Tori realizes all too soon that it is indeed Landon who is the object of her attentions.
This entire scene was an epic anger bang 20 or so kindle pages!!! A rousing start to an interesting tale. Landon is the brilliant medical doctor who volunteers his time to international charity organizations such as Doctors without Borders. He is also the long-term drug addict that lost his job practicing medicine because of said drug habit. He is a complete asshole manwhore when it comes to women. He sets about planning to engage in some truly nefarious activities centered around his drug habit and his volunteer medical work in Thailand just for pure excitement.
Because of an impulse, he invited Tori to go to Bali for a week where his adventure would begin. Tori even dyed her blonde trying to shake up her life. The out-of-the-blue invitation from Landon to go to Bali seemed like just the thing to jump start her in her quest. She is beautiful and capable. She may not be as brilliant as Landon but she is a no nonsense organizer and natural leader. Feeling discarded and put on the shelf time and time again, she is looking to reclaim her self-worth, value and even her purpose in life. The story takes us from the beautiful shores of Bali to the frontlines of disease and poverty in the third world.
Landon finds his irritation growing at the attention Tori seems to attract from other men. He begins to realize just how special and unique Tori is and that his attraction for her has him thinking about changing his ways. She really proves her mettle when she conquers her natural revulsion and fear in the camp treating the village with an outbreak of cholera by making herself useful to Landon as he ministers to the sick and dying. She sets about organizing the staff and supplies and finding a routine which proves invaluable to the mission. Landon and Tori eventually find themselves in love but bad decisions on the part of the drug addict in Landon and this nefarious world come to haunt him and rip Tori right from his grasp.
He pays a terrible price physically for these bad decisions. At his most helpless, he reevaluates everything in his life. He returns to the US and eventually sees Tori to tell her that once and for all, he is committing to intensive rehab. Can these two come together? Is their love strong enough to forge a bond that includes wholeness of person along with the wildness of their shared passion? I didn't deserve you, but I'm thankful everyday for you.
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I couldn't do any of this without you, I wouldn't even want to. But knowing you exist somewhere out there, that you're walking around and breathing and smiling, it makes every moment in here worth it. Thank you for making me a better man. Landon Below is a link to the Doctors without Borders website I was moved by what I saw and read Perhaps it is the difficulty I may be having in balancing expressing the real value of this read, both as entertainment and stimulating thought, with not giving away too much of this original, highly believable and inventive storyline.
The writer had me at the title, Voyeur. Come to think about it… with the amount of porn that is produced and viewed…add to that all the sexually explicit reading that is done…well there might just be a bit of sexual voyeur in most of us. Voyeur in this book refers to the name of an exclusive sex club where sexual actors perform from a menu, of which they choose to consent to perform, for members who pay a high price to watch in private rooms. The touching of the performers is never permitted.
The hot professor, Dr. Callum Pierce is a member of this exclusive club and his student, Oaklyn Derringer is compelled by her extreme financial situation and desire to continue her university education to become a performer. Before they meet in the classroom, they encounter one another at Voyeur. The attraction to one another is instant and illuminating…like striking a match. It felt bigger than that, like a planet that was pulling me into its orbit. The idea sent a thrill of excitement zipping through my body.
Pierce knows immediately that the woman who haunted his dreams after viewing one of her performances is a new student of his as she walks in the classroom on her first day. Callum is intelligent, friendly but also secretive and filled with guilt over his burgeoning attraction to Oaklyn. He has all the makings of a devastatingly damaged alpha male hero. Oaklyn is mature beyond her age.
She is a petite golden- eyed beauty both caring and compassionate. Her parents struggle with money throughout her upbringing has left its mark. Yet, she is surprisingly forgiving and disciplines herself to keep any resentment about her circumstances in check. I really liked her. I liked how she was written as a character. Her actions and reactions seemed natural and genuine. She is understandably shaken when she thought what she felt from her professor was genuine growing desire, borne of their friendship and time spent together, but then found out through happenstance, that he is a patron of Voyeur and has watched her perform.
That you would look at me a certain way, but you sure did look at me a certain way. You looked at me and saw me naked. Of course, you looked at me. He was just keeping me around because I turned him on. Both characters have a decidedly intense sexuality. As a result, reading this book is like retreating to a lush sensual erotic place in your mind watching their story unfold The sexual tension is sustained throughout the entire read. This is in and of itself no small artistic narrative feat and perhaps what makes this book so compelling…so entertaining.
The erotica is blow your mind hot. The conclusion of this breathless read can only be…of course…what every romance reader craves. Yet, I admire and appreciate how there are measured doses of reality incorporated into future of Callum and Oaklyn. Can you hear the book beckoning you to watch? It calls to the voyeur in all the hopeless romantics. Entices us with mesmerizing performances from the pen and imagination of this gifted author.
Finally, it teaches us a little more about our sexuality… a little bit more about our humanity. There are so many ideas that this author has woven into this suspenseful, dark, brooding and violent fairytale, I need to keep myself in check and not over-share. I promise you this will be one of your reads of the year if steer clear of spoilers and allow yourself to read this book fully from front to back. I promise you will be thoroughly captivated with each moment as it unfolds.
If you get to the end without reading it all, you will have missed the intense afterglow that is found in the whole story. Naturally, as any thoughtful reader is wont to do, you will find yourself trying to second guess what is happening, what will happen and what has happened. White cures you fairly quickly of this affliction and by giving this up and giving in, it is then you begin to appreciate the brilliance of this story. The story begins in a forth-right manner. Meadow, a journalist by profession, has been granted a hour jailhouse interview with the charming millionaire, the deviant and self-absorbed Vincent who has been convicted of the murder of 4 people to include her sister, Penelope Penny.
Meadow is after the entire truth of what happened and why it happened and some sort of accounting or owning up of Vincent for her loss. They are locked in a battle of wills…each of them unwilling to show the cards they are holding in their hands. Prison had done nothing to strip him of his masculine, feral beauty. With dark brown hair swept back and dusting his collar, Vincent leaned back in his chair, his shackles jangling against the table. Green eyes studied her, the emerald color glimmering beneath the lights above their heads. His cheekbones were aristocratic, his jaw square and dusted with stubble, and his lips as sultry as she remembered them.
The story is told in alternating points of view. We feel the gamesmanship between Meadow and Vincent. It was through desire that he distracted and addled the mind, unrepentant for the cheap use of human instinct. With a flourish of delicate fingers, it swirls the air around your existence, creating temptations that are too great, challenges that appear to be insurmountable. But within those moments when you doubt how simple coincidence could have led you to clear waters when you are thirsty, to a banquet when you starve, to the heat of fire when your bones scream for warmth and your heart beats weakly beneath the ice that encases it, you understand that certain events were meant to be, were written in the stars, were deemed by the Gods to be worthy for your life even before you were a twinkle amongst mankind.
The retelling involves dark intense sex scenes on the edge of violence. Once he seduced Penelope, he tells her: Damn, it felt good to be a fly. However, Vincent reminds Meadow that this is indeed the case. And this story is a fairytale, I hope you know that. His fate is inextricably entwined in having met his Penelope. I cannot tell you why, but I will always love Vincent. In fact, he will be forever one of my most favorite and loved dark diabolical Dominants I have ever met.
Of course, he is not perfect and yes he was morally bankrupt at times but there is something in him that you will discover that may redeem him in your eyes as well. And I am not referring to his mastery of the sensual seductive arts…although not to lie…it may have a little to do with it. As if fate herself had danced the streets of the city, the sway of her hips causing soft winds to blow and push all the characters into place.
Too perfect, that bitch we call fate and her timing. Pike Lawson, the male protagonist in this story will make any woman weak with his sexy body, sense of responsibility, suppressed need for love, affection and…sex. He is a man that works with his hands yet owns his own construction company. This proves to be both a blessing and curse for Pike. He has felt quite estranged from his son for quite some time. Jordan is young and beautiful but mature is many ways that Cole is not. She is responsible with their joint finances and the awful truth is that Cole is simply not working and aimlessly partying.
Leaving a huge gap for his father to fill. Jordan has always been made to feel invisible and an unimportant…unwelcome even. She has a sense of honor in not freeloading off Pike. So, she sets about doing the cooking, cleaning and laundry, as well as, working at a local bar. All the while, Cole continues his irresponsible ways and he pays less and less attention to Jordan. When it is finally revealed that Cole has been cheating on Jordan for a long time, he moves out of the house. The sexual tension has been growing and growing and OMG…it explodes into unbelievable and yummy hotness!!!
But…does he have the courage to injure the son for which he has sacrificed his whole life. He never went into the Navy because he had to earn a living to care for his baby son, Cole. He never went to university because he had to earn to make sure young Cole had everything he needed and wanted. This is not a straight shot from sexy uber hot romance to endless love type story.
Real and painful lessons and realizations need to be made and accepted. Say what you will my friends but exercising your heart and emotions keeps you young, vital, a believer in things unknown and things unseen. There is a gap between what we know and what absolutely exists.
Go ahead…try and debate me on this. It is the love gifted from the creator themselves out of the impulse to create. Just go for it, okay? It was a week celebrating those literary characters that display devious disaffection and dastardly dominance devastating the hearts and emotions of readers who love when love hurts so good. Adding to this fortuitous celebration was an email from Sloane Howell introducing his enigmatic author friend and his new release. Forgive the grammar faux pas. It just sounds so good.
Sometimes it is good for the literary soul in this day and age, in particular the female literary soul to indulge her need for the romantic fairy tale, no matter if her Prince Charming is a bit of the a-hole and likes to tan her backside a bit. It is not a steady diet and neither is ice cream but I refuse to kowtow to the literary purists and wannabe literary expert hoi polloi who vehemently suggest that reading such romance is beneath their lofty literary intelligence. But I digress…I liked this book. Wolf out there researching or so he claims and is that really your name?
I liked the peeling away at the layers of stupidity the main male character, Professor Grant Wiseman Again.. He was an orderly man and very set and staid in his routine. He was also extremely disciplined as we would expect from an Alpha Male Dom. Did I mention he was written to be gorgeous as well…Tall, older but with a beautiful body ahem…equipment and all. He had beautiful blue eyes behind those sexy academic glasses. You know how these young hot girls are…they just want to look hot and seductive and to hell with being responsible about school.
The author does give her some degree of anxiety over her work ethic in school but her overriding desire seems to be how hot she looks and how much her professor is into her. And he is written to be quite something-something. This writer excels at writing sex scenes from the male POV.
If this is something you enjoy. You will enjoy your momentary escape into his world in this book. Reading some of these passages are on my list of things that make me go Mmmmmm!!! He pulled on the elastic and let it pop her on the thigh. Before long things take a turn and while he tries to do the right thing as he sees it. Of course, it is the absolute wrong thing. Toward the end I was impressed with the backbone Kristen shows and how she grew up.
I also was impressed with the angst and turmoil that Grant had to endure. The HEA did not come as easy as you would think and this shows promise as our writer, Mr. Wolf continues to howl…no, excuse me…continues to do research and write more books. Allowing the woman to have confidence and equal power in other areas of the marriage could benefit their perception of initiating sex. That said, please use caution in the way these things are pursued. One of my passions is in the area of trauma, but it takes a lot for a person to be ready to work through past trauma such as sexual abuse.
It make take a very long time before someone is ready to process through that abuse, and it could actually make things much worse for the survivor as they work through those difficult issues. And i get it. But it still should always be focused on serving the other person. Definitely a big issue. We still have sex but it would be nice for it to be beneficial for her physically as well. In America, we have this culture where whatever women want to do they can do, and we men just have to understand. Whereas men are treated like little boys who have to answer for everything to their wives, and if a man makes the same mistakes a woman does, she will hold it against him forever and ever Amen.
Women have been conditioned to think of themselves as the Queen Of England ever since they were little girls. Movie stars, rock stars, politicians …. I was married for 3 years and hated, hated, hated being married. I worked 2 jobs, meanwhile my wife did nothing. And nothing is also what she did while she was at home. She started flirting with women online through an online gaming program called WoW. I had moved all the way across the country to be married to her so she could be near her friends and family. I never had sex with anyone, but I had some emails and stuff on my computer.
You call men dogs? Because you had food for your dog, but you would rather him starve. So since the dog needs to meet his needs and eat, he takes what is freely given to him. Why did he run off with the secretary? Because a man is programmed to respond to someone helping him. At this point of my life, I have determined I never want to get married ever ever ever ever again.
I gave my wife so much, and then when she found porn on my computer by the way, she was looking at bestiality videos besides flirting with those women , she used that as an excuse to leave me and go try to start relationships with 3 different women all across the country. To be honest, American women, especially Christian women, think it literally is all about them. I have seen more men treat women like a queen, then get ran all over, than I care to even mention here. I have over 25 years of experience to back up what I have said. If this means I never get into a relationship ever again, so be it.
I have been single for about 3 years. I am the horniest woman I know. I love sex, I love masturbation. Not boasting but I make good money and give God the glory for providing for me. I see it as a 2 way street. Honestly in my mind one of the main reasons to get married is sex. Love is beautiful but sex is apart of that. All i got from what you said was you were a former husband….
Complaining about women does nothing. I understand where your coming from, but with an attitude like that your exactly like the women your complaining about. Instead of focusing on what you as a man can do because lets face it you can only control you our complaining and blame shifting. I believe it is not only a duty for a wife and husband to always sexually gratify your spouse if it is physically healthy to because we are told to serve each other, but we should always welcome them with joy and love. Now its not going to always be like that, but saying things like women always do this or always think about that.
However i am also a sexual abuse victim and ya being raped effects sex. Seeing as a lot of women are sexually assaulted ya its a real reason. Its a real reason. So many women have been in bad relationships that scarred them or bad childhoods that effect them and especially with regards to sex.
For most women you have to work to achieve an orgasm and for many sex is shameful. They have been taught that men only want you for your body thats true a lot of the times , your only as good as you look, sex is dirty, its sinful, wait wait wait. Then it comes to actually being married and they are filled with the ideas sex is shameful. Even women who have had sex before have a hard time accepting this sex with my husband is blessed by god.
Its been taught its carnal lust and now oh enjoy it. I was blessed with parents who were not like that at all, but even still that stuff would pop up periodically. Its an uncomfortable 5 minutes between cleaning up and falling asleep. Its not her fault men orgasm in 2 seconds and women take 20 if nothing breaks their concentration if she is even able to vaginally. Seriously, belittling serious issues that a wide array of women and men actually deal with is not the way to behave in marriage.
And even if a wife is in sin and is doing what you say, complaining to here does nothing. Finding ways to serve and prayer is always the way to deal with anything in marriage. Let god deal with a disobedient woman or man we can just focus on our own actions because there is always more we can do to be a better wife or husband. What does complaining accomplish but to stir up anger and bitterness?
There were times my husband was not interested in sex and it was frustrating, but bitching at him did nothing but make the problem worse. Ya he was being disobedient. He was totally in the wrong. God is God and he will sort it out and He did lol. So not fun haha. Love is a choice. You choose to love and to hate.
I can guarantee that my husband did far worse things to me than your wife did. But we are all sinners. Im no better than my husband or you or your ex-wife. And we are all in need of christs love and we are commanded to love people the same way in return. Now that means doing whats best for someone and not always what they want and that can lead to divorce and situations like yours where the other leaves, but if you hated the marriage and everything that you said than do you honestly believe it was just her.
Can you say you were in the right when you hated your own marriage? Now maybe you look back and were saying it just sucked, but you were trying during were trying your damnedest. Regardless of all the shit my husband has done i have no control over him. I only control myself. I can pray, forgive and act in love.
Im sorry she did that, but remember we are all sinners and we all hurt each other so we have to love our spouse unconditionally like christ loves us. We approach each other as God approaches us not based on how they act. Well then, you have just given the power BACK to her. You have made a lot of general comments. I have seen this truth though: But before that the theme was a lot that the man was superior.
I find what works best in our household is when we are both seen as equals that both have strengths in different areas. I heard it best said once is what it means is that ultimately the man is the one that is responsible for the final decision. God left the man in charge. And we still see each other as equals.
But I disagree with that. I also am comfortable if every once in a while my husband tells me randomly that he finds another woman attractive. So in other words you had a normal marriage when it came to sex. This is all good info but i get annoyed because everyone ALWAYS goes on about how women dont care about sex and men do but my relationship is opposite and i wish i could get advice or know there are others like me out there. Great, insightful and practical post! Sex in a covenant relationship is wonderful and should only get better the longer we are married. Too graphic for a christian site that seeks to protect young and old.
Lots of truth but you need to exhibit more maturity and discretion. This was my first time reading this blog though I use the software on my laptop. I also found the blog needlessly graphic. The references to sexual positions are unnecessary. Hmmm, my wife and I practically have no sex life. We agree its from her side. I initiate every single night and i get turned down most of those nights. The reason is that sex hurts her. I try foreplay and she shoots me down everytime. As far as we know, there is no abuse history and we were each others first time sex partners and that was in marriage.
I see no solution. I try hard to show her love in her love languages and in creative ways and she often acknowledges that she know I love her, but nothing changes sexually. And the times between sex get longer and longer. Generally speaking, talking to her about sex is also futile as it often lands up wrong. If I write to her that goes pear too.
Also she is uncomfortable about her body. What more can I do? Even dates and expensive dinners do nothing to ignite a spark. God knows how hard I try and fail almost every time. This sounds like a spiritual battle that needs to be fought to me. Satan knows that a healthy sex life is one of the most unifying aspects of any marriage, so he often times does everything he can to get us into bed before marriage, and out of it once we are married. Maybe you are praying for her. I certainly hope that is the case. Enlist some other Godly and discreet men and women who you can trust to do the same, and then watch God move in your lives and marriage!
Go read Luke Stay strong in the Lord my friend and in the power of His might. What you have writes PowerOfPrayer is spot on, God inspired and completely resonates with my inward man. Truth is that I do pray about the situation. Sometimes a little and sometimes it consumes my entire prayer time.
I see some failure in my prayers at times. Letting the principle of what satan intended for bad, let God transform for good.
Thank you very much. May God bless you. What you have said brings renewed life and encouragement and is truly a word in season. I Loved the article it was correct. That sounds like Man who has taken the time to listen to his wife. I think this article has some good points, but I still think it totally missed the mark. It leaves out one HUGE important factor — Where was the discussion and where are the tips for meeting the emotional intimacy of each spouse before fulfilling physical intimacy?
I think it is the biggest missing factor in most sex talks. This article talks about making the woman feel beautiful and desired and sexy. Those are also the things that can make a woman feel beautiful and sexy — and they are far more important than her physical beauty. There are too many statements and assertions in this article that rigidly categorize men and women. There is much variety among men and women. We need not feel put into a box regarding our temperament or sexual desires.
I totally agree with you on this. I feel this was also thrown together. How fast people get over things DOES depend on a lot of different factors. This implies that women are overly emotional basket-cases while men are strong, macho, manly men. A lot also has to do with childhood, maladaptive ways of coping, like stuffing feelings, and LOTS more.
But he will often be secretly angry for months. He has a lot of stuffed feelings that may surface 6 months down the road and bring up some perceived injustice that I barely remember. Maybe this is what the author means. Very happy to say, after 10 years of marriage, and 2 kids might I add 5 and And dated for 7 years before that true high school sweethearts.. And even 10 years later, sex is still lots of fun for us..
New stuff all the time.. We also talk about it with friends.. Just certain friends…Not in a weird way.. But we have other friends and we all hold each other accountable.. But the guys just ask each other every now and then how things are.. Married for 8 years…. However, my husband could have even more sex if he would stop treating me like a piece of meat. I do everything for my husband in the bedroom. I always must initiate…. Question for the author: Or did it suck for some years. I dont see any posting or comments regarding a lack of sex in a marraige when the husband isnt putting out!
This is an issue as well. Well Michael has thoroughly succeeded in making us non-believers look bad. As a female atheist, I somewhat enjoyed this article. It was giving advice on what they could do differently to help their sex life and make their women feel more comfortable about sex. I have read plenty of articles like this that were written by women, for women. They said similar things! Giving advice to one gender is not being sexist against the other.
Marriage is a two-way street. Both partners must serve each other and work do whatever they can to show their love and respect for each other. This article just shows MEN some ways they can do this. Paul said that Marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefiled. I think we forget the big picture in all of this.
When my car has issues, I take it to a mechanic for he knows how the car operates. When we have sexual problems in our marriage, the first person to go to is the author and originator of marriage, GOD. He knows our make up better than we know ourselves and cares about and get involved in every details of our lives whether physical, spiritual, psychological, financial, or sexual. For some reason I think that some people believe that when they are in bed with their spouse that God calls one of the angels over to pull out a big curtain so him and the angelic beings would not look all angels close your eyes, this x-rated material and wait until they are done then remove the curtain or that when they are in bed that the Holy Ghost leave, then come back when they are done, WRONG!!
The Lord said in Matthew One question I would like to ask everyone who does not feel satisfy in bed with their partner, before you both get in bed, do you pray and invite God to take away any selfish motive and interest, absurd ideas that you both might have had that the sexual act can be acceptable before God?
Not because you are married means your sex life is acceptable before God, remember, the bed must be undefiled. Listen, if you keep sleeping with your wife and you do not love her unconditionally as Christ loves the Church and gave his life for it, you only have a concubine which was nothing but a legal prostitute in the Old Testament; she is being pimped.
Love must be the driving force of sex. We are both very satisfy then compare to when we just jump up in bed. The bible said in whatsoever you do including sex whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of Jesus Christ to the glory of the Father. We must glorify God even in our sex life. If there is a problem, which is a solution misunderstood, get down on your knees, confess your sins to one another then go before the throne of God and ask for his help. Listen if it takes some sexy lingerie to get you men going, you just got yourself a personal stripper,and at the end of the session she should get paid, HOLINESS must transpire even in our bedroom.
We ought to be a Christian everywhere including our bedroom. This is the advice I can share with you, if you have done your partner wrong confess it, then forgive one another, then just before you go in bed to enjoy one another, PRAY, believe you me, unselfish prayer works times better than VIAGRA, with no side effects or risks. The Bible said the prayer of a righteous man avail much.
Bring The Lord back in your marriage bed for he careth for you but do you care? But words seem to speak to me even more. My wife actually showed me this article this week and said it really opened her eyes. She wanted me to read it and after I read it I busted out laughing. Every husband goes through this with there wife.
All the tips in this article I do everyday and it gets me nowhere. As I would imagine not may other women have either. Craig… I would like to start out by thanking you for taking the time to write these articles for all of us. It took my husband having an affair to make me see how I had put up a sexual wall with him all those years. God used the affair to awaken something in me. Lets not get on the defensive people. Lets start acting that way!! We have both given our best energy to our kids at home or at our job. I want him to verbally engage with me, ask me how my day was, etc.
Not only does he ignore me, but later resents me for not being a seductive goddess. I know you have your own way of unwinding at the end of the day, but after that if you want to have sex, you need to engage with me too in the ways that make ME feel loved!! I am human, your WIFE!! Not just a sex toy to turn on or off at will! No area of marriage will work without honest communication! How can 2 people fully engage sexually without honesty?!
This article is right on time with a discussion we were recently having with other couples. It is so easy for us women to place or sexual relationship with our husband on the back burner with so much other stuff going on in life. After many arguments, my husband and I finally started seeing the benefits of a healthy sex life. I have found that frequency has made it easier to discuss things with my husband, and to even get him to help out around the house!
We do not argue anymore, yet we have disagreement that we are now able to talk about as adults without the irate behavior. Our arguments were fierce! I can never get anyone to touch this. My wife had a cancer related hysterectomy 12 years ago and cannot take hormones and has absolutely no desire for sex. I am 28 and have worked in the sex industry for about ten years. How normal was it for men to want anal or try to stick it in your butt twenty years ago? I am convinced this is directly related to watching too much porn.
Sounds like too many women are bitter, unforgiving, more concerned about themselves than giving. If a man has to beg or bow down and just loving their wife with gentle tender care, then the woman is not worth it. For me is nr 3 and 4 and other reasons. Sometimes I would just love to sit there and cuddle up rather then having to undress for his own pleasure.
I am receiving counseling for P. Guys in my past are 3 things when I tell them my past… 1 overly disgusted…. This article is such nonsense. Every relationship is different. Forgive her for not satisfying you and love her anyway like Christ loves the church. So what do you do when there is a medical condition that prevents the man from having any intercourse. The wife is willing. The man can not. Forgive the cliche, but you nailed it. This should be required reading before marriage. It would save a lot of people a lot of trouble.
Probably save a few marriages, too. Related to 6 Here is a BIG one, broken trust. A time of confession and clearing the slate may be in order. Pray for healing and work to rebuild trust. This could be a huge road block to sexual intimacy with your spouse.
Praying for intimate and satisfying marriages for you all. You wrote something very, very damaging to healthy, normal, emotionally well adjusted women all over the world: Women have sex drives. MOST women have sex drives. The longer most women go without sex, the more then consider having an affair cheating. Seriously this is ridiculous. I use sarcasm because the advice and opinions of those NOT in the situation pretty much are dung.
We have to be sooo careful not to be schovinistic sp. When women like this mislead men to into marriage? How discouraging to hear these men deal with this for decades…: Just coming to this discussion looking for advice. Sadly I find none. Articles like these are usually centered around how the guy is wrong. If sex is a two way street it implies that part of the responsibility sits with the wife.
The guy may chase but the woman has to want to be caught. I was in the military for a while and we have been separated by geography for good periods of time and still we stuck by each other. Our sex life was great up until we had kids then it went cold…and I mean cold. In fact a lot changed. Flash forward to now.
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